Once you solve your problem and look back at somebody who’s still stuck at this same type of problem, never start thinking: “they’re taking things too personal, they’re sensitive, or they get mad at other people easily” just to prove this somebody is exaggerating with their reactions. Either you leave this somebody alone to solve their problems and give up the notion that you know better, or you just admit that you don’t care since you have already solved your own problem 
He is the most beautiful thing that ever happened to me 
To show solidarity with attacks on Al-Aqsa Mosque, some people tend to put a black ribbon on their blogs/sites with the slogan “For the sake of Al-Aqsa”, in Arabic “لأجل الأقصى”.
Take a close up at one of those ribbons and you’ll notice two things:
First of all, the ribbon has the picture of the Dome of the Rock and NOT Al-Aqsa Mosque.
Second, black ribbons are put on a person’s photo after he/she dies, to reflect grief for losing this person. In fact, by putting this black ribbon we have spread the existent misconception about Al-Aqsa Mosque, as most people mix between it and think it is the Dome of the Rock. In addition, we have voluntarily executed Al-Aqsa Mosque.
Shame on us!
Side Note: I am not judging the black ribbon habit in here.
As the two ladies were dressed in a buzzard fashion, the street got crowded and some other people were staring from upstairs. I guess it was an unexpected view for some professional people in a presumably classy neighborhood.
When I came back from the store, the girls in the office started interrogating me about the stranger ladies in the street and what were they wearing exactly. They made fun of me for not looking and knowing what the strangers were wearing in details!
It didn’t make me feel stupid, but as the girls in the office sounded jealous because all guys were staring at those ladies, I was thinking in the back of my head:
What kind of respect and self-confidence do those girls have for themselves? I mean, I would say allahoma 3afena wala tabtaleena about those girls and not get intimidated or jealous from ho….. dressing cheaply and degrading themselves to make a living!
They should learn how to be more patient, Allah rewards people for their patience.
A lady might spend her lifetime wishing to be a man’s princess and ends up being called “queen” 
To those who are trading humans for the sake of acquiring business; those human-like freaks who dwarf human struggle as if it never happened, I have a statement:
Yes, it did happen, Gaza massacre did happen, and you can never erase it from our minds and memories!
And by the way, the new generation will have more awareness than you expect.
This is no business engagement, and not everything in our life can be measured in an objective, financial-oriented manner.
It’s a human-oriented matter, and nothing in this world, would ever be a fair compensation for the blood and tears.
May Allah bless the solid people of Gaza, Jerusalem and Palestine.
Some people get married without having a clear idea of what is the most compatible future partner attributes should be. They just get married wishing this huge step would make a difference to their lives.
The truth is: the person should get married only when they know they can make a difference through this marriage and add value to it as much as they expect it to add value to them. As a start, it’s safe to say they can achieve this by selecting their partner based on reasonable compatibility!
Some people have kids automatically after getting married as a normal product of practicing their marital rights, without even being prepared. They bring kids to this world with the notion that they will be the makeover the partners pursue from this marriage.
In fact people should have kids only when they are sure they have some descent content, and solid values and beliefs worth being conveyed to their children. Raising kids isn’t only about providing materialistic living necessities. Parents should be concerned mainly about two things: providing their children with access to sufficient resources that will help their kids select the orientation that best employs their skills and capabilities, and directing their kids without being satisified merely by advising them and leaving the choices completely to them. Sometimes those kids just don’t know better and would go astray if they were left alone to decide before they develop or acquire the necessary decision making qualities!
Let me introduce myself; I am Jerusalem and this is my 1st blogging day on WordPress, although I have been a bloggerette for years.
This blog is simply a mirror, but of a different type. A mirror that creates a biased reflection for a better understanding: to hear the unspoken, to read the unwritten, to explore the forbidden, to dig our way up to the sun shine and to help others feel the sun shining through their windows; to cry for other people’s sorrows and laugh for their happiness better than if it was our own, and to establish the reassuring shoulder when others need one .
